Services

Work with Ernest Toho

Clarity for where you are. Strategy for where you are going.

Whether you need a confidential conversation, a stronger dating strategy, a guided first step, or experienced support for your organization, there is a clear place to begin.

Services, clearly defined

No generic packages. Each pathway is designed around a specific kind of need, depth, and working relationship.

Confidential support

Singles Relationship Counselling

A private one-to-one space for singles and dating pairs working through heartbreak, recurring patterns, confusion, and real dating challenges.

From $75 · 60, 90 or 120 minutes

For clarity that requires conversation

  • Live and fully virtual over Zoom
  • Confidential and judgement-free
  • Clarity Intake completed before your session
  • Dating pairs may share one session slot
  • Three session lengths to match the depth of the issue
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Personal strategy

Dating Coaching

For singles who want to date with intention, recognize patterns earlier, filter better, and stop relying on instinct alone.

From $90 per session · Membership from $275/month

Choose the relationship you need

Coaching SessionsFrom $90

Focused, pay-per-session strategy with no subscription.

Coaching Membership$275/month

Ongoing sessions, unlimited email and chat, plus Inner Circle.

Private Dating Coach$550/month

Priority on-demand access, Inner Circle and Inner Circle Plus.

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The guided first step

The 6 Steps Dating Life Reset Masterclass

A live 60-minute introduction to Ernest’s framework, designed to help you evaluate your current dating life with more honesty and structure.

Free · Saturdays, 7:00 to 8:00AM WAT

Begin without pressure

  • 100% free with no credit card required
  • Live on Zoom and streamed on social media
  • Beginner-friendly and open to friends
  • Drawn directly from The Dating Reset framework
  • A natural bridge into the book, Counselling, or Coaching
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Organizations and communities

Community & Organizational Consultancy

Practical guidance drawn from real experience leading, growing, restructuring, and professionalizing large communities.

Quoted individually · Virtual or agreed format

Support built around the assignment

  • Group and team building
  • Restructuring, positioning, and community growth
  • Engagement, event, and volunteer strategy
  • Leadership training and counselling strategy
  • Marketing and sustainability planning
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A necessary distinction

Dating support is not matchmaking.

Counselling and Coaching help you think, choose, and date better. They do not provide romantic access to other clients or community members.

Looking for a genuine match?

Matchmaking is a separate premium service provided by Justified Connect Singles World under its own platform, terms, and verification process.

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How working together begins

A simple process, designed to protect your time and make the first conversation useful.

1

Choose the right pathway

Use the service descriptions above, or begin with the free assessment if you are still uncertain.

2

Share the relevant context

Complete the booking or intake information so Ernest understands the situation before your time begins.

3

Do the real work

Arrive ready for an honest, focused conversation and practical next steps you can own.

Not ready to book?

Start with one of Ernest’s self-guided entry points and return when you know what kind of support you need.

Self-guided clarity

The Dating Reset

A premium self-coaching guide for singles who refuse to settle for less, built around the OWN IT principle and The Filter First Protocol.

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Free starting point

The Book Assessment

Use the free public assessment to reflect on where you are and identify the next most useful step.

Take the free assessment →

You do not need every service. You need the right next step.

If you are still unsure, tell us what you are working through.

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